Abundant Wellness With Andrea- From Surviving to Thriving in Mind, Body and Spirit

“If it worked, it would have worked by now.”
Many parents quietly think, We’ve tried everything.Charts. Rewards. Consequences. Punishments.
And when none of it works, the blame often falls on you.
In this episode, we explore why traditional parenting tools often fail neurodivergent or sensitive nervous systems — and why that failure is not a parenting problem.
You’ll learn:
The assumptions behind charts and punishments — and why they break down under stress
Why behavior is driven by the nervous system, not willful defiance
How rewards and consequences can create shame instead of skills
Why compliance is not the same as regulation
We’ll reframe what kids actually need:Felt safety before expectations.Co-regulation before independence.Skills taught outside of dysregulation.
Key truth:You didn’t fail. These tools were never designed for your child’s brain.
✨ Regulation first. Skills second. Behavior follows.
Invitation:If you’re exhausted and questioning yourself, you’re not alone. Inside Thriving Together, we teach nervous-system-smart parenting and support parents instead of judging them.
There is another way — and it works with the brain, not against it.
 
Schedule a Strong Start Discovery Call to address your neurodivergent child's physiologic needs.
 
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Many Christian parents quietly wonder: If my child isn’t obedient, am I failing God?
In this episode, we explore the tension between obedience-based parenting and what neuroscience reveals about how children’s brains actually function—especially in neurodivergent, anxious, or trauma-affected kids.
You’ll learn why obedience is a higher brain function, why fear creates compliance but not discipleship, and how Scripture has often been misunderstood in ways that unintentionally harm sensitive nervous systems.
We talk about ADHD, autism, anxiety, trauma, and PDA—and why meltdowns, refusal, or shutdowns are not rebellion, but dysregulation.
This episode reframes parenting through a faith-centered, nervous-system-aware lens and releases parents from spiritual shame.
Key truth: Regulation is the soil. Obedience is the fruit.
We close with hope and an invitation into Thriving Together, a community where neuroscience, faith, and compassion meet.
 
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Know that your child needs help optimizing their physical health so they can feel their best mentally? Schedule a Strong Start Discovery Call HERE 

Your Child Isn’t Broken (and Neither Are You)
Why so many special-needs parents feel like failures — and what’s really happening neurologically
If you’ve ever wondered “Why is this so hard?” or “What am I doing wrong?”—this episode is for you.
Parenting a neurodivergent, sensitive, or anxious child can leave parents feeling judged, exhausted, isolated, and ashamed—especially when traditional parenting tools don’t work. In this episode, we unpack why so many parents internalize blame and why that blame doesn’t belong to you.
We explore what’s actually happening in your child’s brain, including nervous system differences related to autism, ADHD, anxiety, trauma, PDA, and sensory processing. Meltdowns, shutdowns, refusal, aggression, and panic are not character flaws—they are stress responses. A key truth: a dysregulated brain can’t access logic, empathy, or compliance.
You’ll learn why sticker charts, punishments, yelling, and “just try harder” approaches often fail these kids—and why that doesn’t mean your child is defiant or that you’re failing. You’ve simply been given tools that don’t fit your child’s nervous system.
We also talk about what actually helps: regulation before correction, connection before compliance, safety before skills, co-regulation, and whole-body support including sleep, nutrition, sensory input, gut health, and hormones.
Finally, we address the emotional healing parents need too—grieving the parenting experience you expected, releasing comparison and shame, and learning to trust your child (and yourself) again.
Your child is not broken.Their nervous system is different.And your parenting is not a failure.
✨ Invitation: Join Thriving Together—a space where parents don’t have to explain, perform, or figure this out alone, and can learn how to support their child in a nervous-system-smart way.
 
Needing Functional Medicine Support to address your child's mental/physical and emotional wellbeing? Schedule a Strong Start Discovery Call and we'll help you determine next steps. 

Raising healthy, happy kids in this day and age is no easy feat! 
 
Dr. Elisa Song joins me today to chat all things integrative medicine and how that can help us raise children that are free of the chronic issues that have been normalized by western medicine. 
 
Make sure you grab a copy of her bestseller HERE
 
To schedule a discovery call with Andrea, find a time HERE
 
 

Disappointment is something we all experience in life. It is unavoidable! But how we process it will determine if we get stuck in it or move through it in a healthy way that leads to deeper connection with ourselves and with God. 
 
 

If you haven't taken a listen to part 1 where I explain what the microbiome is and how it impacts our mental, emotional and spiritual health, make sure to go take a listen to that first! 
 
In todays episode, I cover: 
How can microbiome testing help in identifying and addressing mental health or behavioral issues?
What are the limitations or potential challenges of microbiome testing in the context of mental health?
Can you share any recent research or findings that highlight the connection between the microbiome and mental health?
What practical steps can individuals take to improve their microbiome health, and how might these steps impact their mental well-being?
How can healthcare providers integrate microbiome testing into their practice to better support patients with behavioral and mental health concerns?
Know that microbiome testing is your next best step? You can register for that here!

As a Functionally and conventionally trained registered nurse, I get questions all the time about the microbiome- both from clients, lay people and family members.
 
This episode is a breakdown of the microbiome, what it is, why it's important to address it for all of our health concerns and so much more! 
 
In this episode, I answer: 
What is the microbiome, and why is it important for overall health?
Can you explain how the microbiome influences our mental and behavioral health?
What specific aspects of mental health or behavioral issues can be impacted by microbiome imbalances?
How does the gut-brain axis work, and what role does the microbiome play in this connection?
What are some common signs or symptoms that might indicate a microbiome imbalances
 
 

Have you ever felt disqualified, or maybe even humiliated by an unaswered prayer? 
 
In this episode, I share with you how shame can create a disconnect between us and receiving the Love of God, how it manifested for me during the season of my daughters illness, and what we can do to overcome the narrative of shame.
 

Supporting our bodies through one of the biggest hormonal shifts in our female lives is no easy task! 
 
Beth Learn, Founder of Fit2B, talks with us all about supporting our bodies through our cycles, and hormonal shifts like perimenopause and menopause. 
 
Listen all the way through as we bust some myths about perimenopause, fitness, nutrition and more! 
 
Make sure to give Beth a follow @fit2b on instagram.
 
To schedule a free discovery call with Andrea to get to the bottom of what's creating your hormone madness, schedule here https://l.bttr.to/MWgLm
 
 
 
 

So many of you asked for a live reading of my book "Wrapped in Kindness", so I'm hosting it here! 
 
I'm not going to read word for word, but I am going to highlight specific themes of the chapter that I feel will be the most relevant to YOU and your story so that God can meet you there. 
 
Grab your hard copy here!